Camera Shy

I'm not a fan of pictures of myself in general, but there are two times in my life where I avoid the camera like the plague: while pregnant and while mothering an infant.  However, I wish I took more pictures because years from now I would probably appreciate seeing them and my kids would probably appreciate seeing me in some of their baby photos too!

So today while Adam and I were trying to take a quick nap, I took this one with my phone.  Not going to win any beauty pageants, but at least it documents my existence!

Ouchie All Better

Well, not 100%, but as of yesterday - my picking up Owen ban has been lifted. As Owen explained, "doctor say mama ouchie all better!" It seems like a short period of time and I'm sure after enough time passes, even I won't remember how hard it was...but 12 days without holding Owen was probably the toughest part of the first 2 weeks with a new baby. We both really missed each other.

We are still adjusting to our "new normal" and now that I can be there for him physically, it's almost more confusing to him when I say I can't hold him because Adam needs to eat (or any other reason.) We are starting to see the first signs of jealousy because now the reason I'm unavailable is Adam instead of my ouchie. I can imagine that the way he hears it now is that I have a choice of who I hold and sometimes I choose Adam instead of him. Mommy guilt is on overdrive right now.

However, he is doing amazingly well overall and is nothing but a sugar sweet boy. He seems to love Adam and gives him lots of kisses and hugs and pats. I have been trying to play with Owen more and be available to him whenever I can. Today we played trains for awhile and I took some pictures of him. I attempted a photo of the two of us and although it didn't turn out how I expected it to, I still kind of like it.

Super Dad

Steve has been an amazing dad and husband these last few days since Adam arrived (that sounds like he wasn't so good before Adam arrived and that is definitely not the point I am trying to make!)  He is basically on point all day when it comes to Owen which leaves me in charge of Adam and recovering from my c-section.  However, since he is so wrapped up with Owen, it doesn't leave him as much time with Adam as he had with Owen when he was this age.

Today, Steve got a little Adam time in and we were able to capture it with a photo. 

Happy One Week Birthday!

Adam is officially one week old today!  I know that infancy goes by quickly, but it seems like the second time around it is on ludacrous speed (Spaceballs reference.)  Maybe it's because having a 2 year old around makes the day go by faster - maybe it's because I don't have that "new mom in the headlights" feeling - or maybe it's because I'm back in the mindset where I don't want these days to go by so quickly so that's exactly what they are going to do.

The picture above was taken today and Steve and I are in awe of how Asian our boys look during their first few weeks.  Owen's baby pictures look like a completely different kid than the one he is today.  It makes us wonder how Adam's looks will change over the next couple weeks - or if they will at all?  In the meantime, Steve coined the nickname "Adam Santokyo" for this particular picture.  He definitely looks more than 25% Japanese!

Owen is continuing to amaze us with how well he is adapting to being one of two children in the house.  He shows absolutely no animosity towards Adam and in fact, it's 100% love.  He wants to hold him, kiss him, hug him and he's always making sure he's around if nobody is holding him.  He has had his challenges adjusting to Mom being primarily out of the picture when it comes to his schedule and discipline but nothing that is unusual or unexpected.  Whenever he leaves to go upstairs to bed with Dad and I say goodbye and goodnight from downstairs - he calls to me "I love you, Mama!" as he is going upstairs.  I seriously can't be more proud or more in love with my kids.  I am counting the days until I can be more engaged with him and more of a part of his daily routine.  I know he's here and I can hug him and kiss him anytime I want, but I actually MISS him!  Mommy guilt is a terrible thing.  I could probably fill a 500 page book with the feelings I have about Owen right now, but I'll just sum it up by saying I love him so, so much.

Finally, Steve took this photo from his phone today.  Babies doing a Yuen Lui pose are damn cute!

First Smiles

I know this doesn't really count as a smile because it was touch induced, but today we got a sneak peek at what a smile from Adam might look like. 

New Year's Eve - 2010

Today we celebrated the eve of 2011 by leaving the hospital and welcoming Adam home.  Owen's wish to hold Baby Adam was granted and he did amazingly well. 

I had thought that Owen might be jealous of Adam or have a hard time once he realized Adam wasn't staying at the hospital, but as you can see from this picture, he is nothing but happy to have this little baby around. 

Mom on the other hand, is having the hardest time with her inability to hold Owen because of her surgery.  When you are beaming with pride, all you want to do is pick him up and shower him with kisses and hugs.  For now, we are hugging while seated on the floor.  Owen occasionally asks if I can hold him, but we remind him of Mama's "ouchie" and he seems to completely understand and accept the situation.  He is just the sweetest little boy.

Adorable baby Adam - Adorable big brother Owen.  How lucky can one family be?!?!?

Welcome Adam Michael

It's been a long 9 months, but today we welcomed Adam Michael into the world and into our family.  He is absolutely perfect and we couldn't be happier. 

Owen came to the hospital with Nana to meet his little brother.  The first thing he wanted to do was "hold Baby Adam."  I think he's going to be an amazing big brother.

I am going to do my best to keep the blog going, but I have a feeling my posts might slow down a bit during these next few months while we concentrate on Adam and Owen's needs.  But here are a few pictures from today!

Mom and Dad about an hour before Adam was born:

11:20AM - December 29th, 2010

Beautiful Boy

Proud Parents

Our Boys





Christmas Day - 2010

Merry Christmas!

 

Did Santa come to the Santoki house? Why, yes he did! Santa came and delivered – big time.

Owen woke up his usual way – asking to go immediately downstairs and check the advent calendar to see if the Big Man came during the night. This time, mom carried him downstairs where Dad and Nana were waiting (Dad with the video camera rolling.)

The first stop were the stockings that Santa had filled with care. Did I mention that Owen thinks Santa is basically the Candy Man? So, he was a little confused when he saw these big socks filled with whoknowswhat. It was interesting to him, but still a little confusing and definitely NOT the chocolate he was after. So he directed me to take him into the kitchen to get the calendar.

 

On the way to the kitchen, the living room came into view and Owen’s eyes got VERY wide. “A ding ding and a Thomas!” was the first comment out of his mouth when he saw the pile of presents. Calendar forgotten – time to play with these awesome new toys. Owen loved everything he received…but I think these were his favorites:

• Garbage cans, trains and a lollipop in his stocking (Santa)
• A ride on motorized Thomas The Train (Nana)
• A Bubba sized “ding ding” that actually lights up and the gate moves up and down (Santa)
• A big boy tool set complete with power drill and saw (Santa)
• A Thomas The Train Movie (Uncle Michael and Aunt Kelly)
• A special Bubba chair (Santa)

The differences between this year and last year was that Owen was definitely more excited to open his gifts. The cutest part was hearing his little gasps when the present came into view “oooooohhhhhhhhh!” A similarity between this year and last year was it was still hard to get him to stay interested in all the gifts and I ended up opening the last few for him. But, it’s probably a time that we will miss when he becomes old enough to tear into all his gifts and open them in record time while simultaneously showing his appreciation or disapproval of each. Right now he approves of ALL gifts and wants to give each one equal attention.

 

The rest of the day was spent eating Christmas Eggs, playing with all our new toys (Mom and Dad got wine and a Panini (or Panino as the case may be) maker which we are so excited to put to use at the same time), video chatting with Uncle Michael, Aunt Kelly and Cousin Audrey, taking naps (everyone took one) and eating gourmet grilled cheese sandwiches.

 

Steve and I agreed, this was the best Christmas yet.

Christmas Eve - 2010

Wow, what a difference a year makes! Last year, Owen was a little over one year old and had absolutely no idea nor care about Santa. He liked taking a picture with the old man, but that was about it. Opening presents was ok – but he really just wanted us to open them and give them to him.

This year, Santa is THE MAN WITH THE CANDY. My previous post about advent calendars explained how Santa has been a regular visitor at night to the Santoki house. Each night, he has brought a piece of candy for Owen (3 Musketeers for breakfast anyone? Yes, please!) When Owen went to visit Santa to take his picture, Santa gave him a candy cane. When Owen went to visit Santa #2 at the fire station, Santa gave him 3 candy canes. So basically, Santa rocks.

So Christmas Eve started out with a trip down to Nana’s house and a visit with Aunt Debi and her family including some special guests – Noriko and her son, Takemi from Japan and Matt’s new girlfriend, Molly from Oklahoma. Owen had a blast playing with Grace and Takemi while the grownups got to enjoy some delicious brunch courtesy of Nana.



After we got home and Owen took a nap, Nana joined us for dinner and Christmas preparations. We watched the obligatory “Elmo’s Christmas Countdown” and got into our special Thomas The Train Christmas pajamas. Then we took a few pictures to document the evening. Before bed, we set out some cookies for Santa. Owen was thoughtful enough to try a bite out of each one just to make sure Santa would like them. Then, he was so quick to go to sleep knowing that the Big Guy was coming yet again to bring him “chocolate and presents.”

Steve, Nana and I celebrated Christmas Eve by eating fondue and cookies and then staying up fairly late to assemble and set out presents. Then we all went to bed to wait for Santa. Stay tuned for tomorrow’s post to see if he came…

My Dad Is Older Than Your Dad

Steve has been feeling a little old lately. Aches and pains have become more common and therefore simple household tasks have become more challenging. We decided a little strength training might be in order for Owen just so he can pick up the slack a little earlier than previously planned. It’s going well so far, only a matter of time before he can start moving furniture around and changing light bulbs. Lift with your legs, Owen - not with your back…



Only slightly kidding. As some of you remember from the Father’s Day 2010 post, one of Owen’s favorite indoor activities is sitting inside a tote bag and having Dad swing him back and forth. This worked well when Owen weighed 20 pounds. Now that he is over 30, it’s a tough job to keep the swinging going as long as Owen would like. It’s a “Dad Only” job (Mom has made that clear) but even still, it usually involves changing into shorts and a t-shirt and taking a couple ibuprofen.

So Dad had the great idea to get one of these door mounted chin up bars. It works great! But I think Owen enjoyed it more when Dad was the swinger – or maybe I just did.

We Don't Need No Stinking Chipotle

The only healthy meat Owen will eat regularly is Taco Del Mar and Chipotle pork. I have been going to these restaurants fairly regularly and ordering a bunch for him. The conversation with the burrito artists usually goes something like this:

Me: “Three sides of carnitas in a bowl, please. To go.”
Burrito Artist: “You just want carnitas in a bowl?”
Me: “Yes, please.”
Burrito Artist: “You don’t want rice or anything?”
Me: “No, thank you. Just the pork.”
Burrito Artist: “Cheese?”
Me: “No, thanks. Just the pork. That’s it.”
Burrito Artist: “Guac or sour cream?”
Me: “No, that’s it…Just like that.”
Burrito Artist: “Okaaaayyyy?”
Burrito Artist (speaking to cashier): “This is just 3 sides of carnitas.”
Cashier: “What is it?”
Burrito Artist: “Three sides of carnitas – only.”
Cashier: “Just carnitas?”
Burrito Artist: “Yep.”

Because I’m annoyed with this conversation that happens EVERY SINGLE TIME and because I haven’t found the refrigerated carnitasinabag at the grocery store – I decided today that I could try and make myself some dang pork. Even though I have a fear of cooking meat (I’m better at pasta) I figured, it couldn’t be that hard. Worst case scenario, I try it and fail and I’m back to take out.

Well, I have to say…for a first try…I pretty much rocked it. The true test will be tomorrow when Owen tastes it. I probably just jinxed myself by getting too cocky, but...fingers crossed!!!!

Child Labor II

Owen is getting very good at vacuuming!  Since we are currently aware of loud noises and our ears, today he opted for some very responsible ear protection.  Now there is no excuse why these floors can't be spotless!  Or, come to think about it, there is no excuse for not hearing me when I say it's time for dinner, bath, bed or anything else he doesn't want to do...Unless he's wearing these crazy things at the time.

Another Year, Another Charlie & Owen Picture

Some kids have growth charts in their room.  I have Charlie stand next to Owen at the window.  It works and it's adorable!

"Cover Your Ears, Charrie"

Yesterday was garbage day and Owen decided he wanted to show "Charrie" the trucks.  It was definitely cute, but as usual, Owen out-cuted himself when he decided the trucks might be a little loud for Charlie's sensitive ears.  He said, "Oh, loud - cover your ears, Charrie" and he covered them for her.

A Bonus Holiday Event - Santa & A Firetruck!

I have a sneaking suspicion that all five of my pre-planned holiday activities are not going to be completed. If the rain doesn’t ease up there are definitely a couple that could get postponed to next year!

Today, however, Nana told us about Santa coming to the Gig Harbor Fire Station and handing out candy canes to good boys and girls. Do you think Owen would be interested in this bonus holiday activity? Let’s think…Santa + Candy + Firetrucks + Ambulances + Firemen. Uh, this is like a Christmas dream come true for Mr. Owen.

Nana and I had fun watching him ask Santa for more candy canes over and over – run around the fire station like a crazed banshee – be entertained by the firemen who were nice enough to show him inside all the trucks – and generally love life at the fire station.

Holiday Event 2 of 5 - A Visit With Santa

Tonight Owen stood patiently in the rain to wait for a visit with Santa.  He was promised a lollipop (candycane) and gosh darn it if he wasn't going to get it (Owen kept calling it a "special lollipop.")  We waited for probably 20 minutes in a massive downpour but the end result was worth it.  Since the picture is a given, I decided to bring along the video camera and I'm glad I did.  You can almost see the "Christmas Magic" in Owen's eyes when he firsts walks in and greets the Big Man.  He's starting to feel the magic of Santa and I love it.

You'll hear Owen talking a LOT about choo-choos.  This is because Santa's house is about 100 yards away from the railroad tracks and while we were waiting, about 5 trains came by - whistles blaring.  It was very distracting for Owen who was completely torn between Santa/Lollipop and Train/DingDings.  So when another train came by when we were inside Santa's house, Owen had to educate Mr. Claus a little about the sounds that were coming from outside.

I Pee Peed In Bed

It seems like the first two years of a child’s life is filled with notable milestones like first smiles, first laugh, rolling over, first words, walking, talking, running and jumping.  The third year is filled with milestones for sure but it seems like many of them are like rites of passage versus new developmental skills.

For instance, the first time you walk around the corner and see your toddler standing on the coffee table.  That happened to us around 12 months.  Many of these expected events haven’t happened yet, but I feel like they are on the horizon.  Things like climbing out of the crib, flushing something large down the toilet, a bloody injury, a foreign object up the nose or falling down the stairs.  None have happened yet, but they will.

Today, a toddler milestone was reached when I walked into Owen’s room in the morning and found him naked in his bed.  I said “Good morning!” and he said, “I pee peed in bed!”  Uh, yeah you did.  And all over all 20 stuffed animals, 2 blankets and the bumper.  I wonder what the next “milestone” will be?

Introduction To Advent Calendars

I bought an advent calendar a couple years ago and this is the first year we’ve tried it. We’re on day 4 and it’s going well. I know that some kids have full calendars and they are able to open one per day. Owen had a little trouble understanding that only one door could be opened per day so I asked Santa if he wouldn’t mind having one of his Elves come over each night and put a piece of candy in the next day’s door. He agreed and this has worked out beautifully for Owen. He basically wakes up asking for that day’s door and then he’s able to check all the other doors just in case the Elf forgot and delivered more than just one piece of candy. Once he’s satisfied that he got the only piece, he is able to wait patiently for the next day.

I was downloading videos off my camera and found this video Steve took the other day when I was at work. I thought it was cute because you can see how interested Owen is in the calendar (it literally stops him in his tracks) as well as hear him talk about it. 

Wordsmith

Owen’s vocabulary has been expanding rapidly lately. Steve and I are able to understand about 99% of what he says (although sometimes he has to repeat himself a couple times before we figure it out.) I would guesstimate that other people can understand about 60% of what he says?

Steve and I have been in constant awe of his communication over the last month or so. He is memorizing pages of books and will be able to remember them after only hearing the book once or twice. His sentences are getting longer and longer – he said one the other day that consisted of nine words. Before bed each night, Steve or I will ask him about his day and he’s able to recall and explain different parts of the day and what he did. What has really been impressing us are the sentences he says that are his own (ones that are not just mimicking things that we say all the time.) He has a lot going on in that head of his and it’s so cool to hear him talk about it.

There have been a couple sentences he has said lately that have made me laugh and I thought to myself, “I should write that down.” So I am. I can only think of three right now so as I remember more, I will add them to the list.

• (Opening the freezer and grabbing the ice cream container.) “This is called, ‘ice cream.’”
• (I’m in his room and he’s playing at the sink in the bathroom.) “I’m making a MESS!”
• (Reading his garbage truck book and spelling out STOP!) “S – T – O – P stop. What’s that?” (pointing to the exclamation point) Me: “It’s an exclamation point. It means you have to yell, STOP!” Owen: “S-T-O-P-X point. STOP!”

I always like blog posts with pictures so here is one I took yesterday that has nothing to do with this post. It’s just that Owen loves his Mr. Potato Head’s glasses and wears them a good portion of everyday. It makes me laugh every time.

Thanksgiving Day (Observed)

Today was the day we celebrated Thanksgiving. It was at Nana’s house (of course) and it was all the usual suspects who live local. Mom, Dad, Owen and Nana – Debi, Madeline, Megan and Grace.

Owen, Steve and I were all in the final stages of a cold and Nana was just starting one. So we were all a little under the weather, but luckily nobody was in the worst of it. Turkey, gravy and mashed potatoes were definitely what the doctor ordered. Plus, Nana did all the work (as usual) so the rest of us got totally spoiled (as usual.)

One of my biggest frustrations with Owen is that he refuses to eat mashed potatoes. This is NOT my child. I mean, he will gobble up the nastiest baby food (spinach and potatoes) but will not even entertain the idea of mashed potatoes and gravy. This logic is beyond me. So we all enjoyed a yummy thanksgiving dinner and Owen ate…pretty much…nothing. His loss! He did sit in his chair for the duration of dessert. We discovered “man cookies” (gingerbread men) and crème brulee (which he refused to try until I told him it was ice cream and then he ate half my bowl.)

The coolest (non culinary) part of the night was watching Owen and Grace play together. They really interacted and played with each other versus just playing near each other. They read books, played piano, played with Owen’s trains and trucks and finished the night with Steve chasing them both around the house and jumping out of corners to scare them. They were like two peas all night.

And now I get to look forward to the best part of the day after Thanksgiving…leftovers!